onions & jade[ed]

"Guys are like onions.
So many layers - you peel, you peel, you peel...

Eventually you get to the middle & its just the core.

bare

useless.

Then you realize you've been crying the whole time.
just to get to this... the empty fucking core.

that's why I don't fall in love."

- J.Rye (the voice of reason?)

a dieing breed... the 'homme chaud'

In Toronto, as you may have noticed, there is a serious lack of what I call... Hot Mens.
So, when one of these becomes single again pandamonium strikes amongst the female populous. i find it funny, mainly because i view good looking guys like amazing pieces of art. Really really great to look at, they should definately be appreciated. But are they really worth the high cost? Additional security & insurance? usually, no.

but then again, I have always had a thing for Dali.

lightbulb moment!

Guess what?! Contrary to popular belief...

Guys on Yonge Street actually arent sleaze after all!

I've just been informed that when they whistle or 'kiss their teeth' at you its simply because they're...

(drumroll please)...

"putting you on notice that they've noticed you"

wel thats good.

take that 'hoe train'...

OH SNAP!
(love you, v!)

The Great in Gay

I must say… over the last few months I have been spending more time with my gay male friends & their boyfriends. There are a few things I have noticed. I figured it best to share with you…

1. They are more honest about their sexual needs up front.
2. They think open relationships are gay stupid.
3. They chill out to better music.
4. They are more open to each other’s ideas on religion, politics & parenting… the three things women in relationships are usually the most afraid to discuss.
5. They are far less judgmental.
6. They are more affectionate & compassionate towards each other.

It’s been pretty refreshing to say the least. But, it should also be noted (dear, sweet straight friends in relationships) that there are heterosexual couples whom share this also… I just haven’t met any this summer. Well there was one couple… but they broke up last month. He left her for a man.

ps. yes, i do enjoy making raging generalizations... sorry.